Five Things That Every Sexuality Expert Must Know!

So much of what we do on a daily basis impacts our sexuality. It isn’t only and always about sex toys and blue pills : ))

Although sometimes those things help!

Become a Certified Sexuality Coach

& Potentially Leave Your 9-5 Behind!

Imagine a life where you make your own schedule, and have more time to spend with your loved ones; and when you tell people what you do, they all lean in closer to figure out how and when they can get on your schedule.

What is a sex coach?

A sex coach is a trained professional who helps people with sexual issues. If you are interested in sex coaching or relationship coaching as a profession, it is important to know the field.

Why work with a sex coach?

Society tells us that we are supposed to naturally know how to have sex. The desire to have sex is natural, but the skills to be a great lover or to engage fully in sex aren’t. The truth is that people need to learn how to have great sex. Social animals (including humans) learn skills through modeling and explicit instruction.

Since sex is something that is shamed in our culture, talking about it or giving explicit instruction still remains rare. Young adults have very few good ways to learn how to have satisfying sex. A few will be lucky enough to have a partner teach them.

Unfortunately, most people don’t give good feedback, so many people end up not knowing what makes for great sex. This is where working with a good sex coach can be very helpful. Sex is learnable and teachable. The best way to learn about it is to get feedback from an experienced, non-judgmental and cheer-leading person. It’s most helpful if they also understand both the physiology and the psychology of sex.

What is the difference between a sex coach and a sex therapist?

To be a sex therapist, one needs to have a degree in psychotherapy, theology, social work, or medicine. Each of these foundational trainings will include only a small amount of training around sexuality. A sex therapist may augment this training with additional sexuality training. Sex therapy can often be a longer process where you dive into the childhood underpinnings of your emotional challenges around sex. It is often particularly helpful to those who have unresolved trauma or higher levels of dysfunction. Like sex coaches, a sex therapist may give their client homework and ask them to report on it in the next session.

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